Listen To The Words

It seems as though we have come to the point where the words in a song mean absolutely nothing. I was attending open mic night this evening, where a grouped called Armageddon performed a song. The song had wonderful production and was very up tempo. The women in the club began to dance in the normal provocative way, however not listening to one word of the song. The song was about women being loose and dancing provocative in clubs, and the negative aspects of it. It sadden me that all the men in the club seemed to realize what the song was really about but the women just kept on dancing. It reminded of something Chris Rock once said,”women don’t care what you say in a song, as long as it got a good beat. The song could be called smack that bitch with a dick and she gonna love it.” But yall not hearing me though…..whateva,nigga……

Father’s Day

I’ve heard so many negative things about fathers today that I wanted to say something positive. There are a lot of good fathers out there contrary to what you hear. I have been lucky enough to be raised by such. My father has been consistent force throughout my life, and I appreciate him greatly. I know of other good fathers out there, that take care of their responsibilities as husbands and fathers.  We need to spend more time uplifting these good men instead of lumping them with all of the ones that fail. You will not be a good man until you see a good man. So to all the good fathers out there, happy father’s day. If you know a good father make sure you tell them happy father’s day today. To all those absentee fathers you are missing out on something wonderful. But yall don’t hear though…so, whateva nigga…

Are You Sure….?

As I look at current fashions, more specifically concerning men, I wonder if most of these guys are straight. When has it ever been cool for a man and his woman to wear the same size and style of jeans…? Then on top of the jeans already being so tight that blood circulation begins to be a concern, they have the nerve to sag them. Seriously? I see guys walking around with jeans so tight they look like spandex. As a man your girl should not have to help you squeeze into your jeans before you help her into hers. I not saying that your jeans should be the skater style and super baggy, but come on at least have them actually fit. I always believed a man should dress and act like a man. So if you wearing skinny jeans and extra small shirts, don’t be surprised when somebody questions if you are straight or not, because you basically have on the same outfit as the female that just walked by. But, whateva nigga……